Life, Love and Hope...

For those of you who've come here with a tiniest thought of any "philosophical" content...here's a bit of advice...it's no use perusing any further...because this is no guide to life or happiness or even hope(wow...that sounds "so" encouraging!).

This, in fact is a heartfelt account of what "i've" understood of them...if u think this may help you(or better still...make u laugh!)...go ahead and read it...i hope i won't disappoint you!

I am a regular 21 year old...with absolutely no idea of what i wanna do with my life...the only thing that's clear to me is that i want this status to change...there are things im good at, but which don't capture my interest.....there things i'm good at, and like doing...and there things that i'm no good at, but would love to do anyway!...so...what should i run after???

Love....is pretty amazing(oh yeah???) if you happen to find the right person for your affections...someone who loves you back....someone who doesn't try to cling but is always there when you need him/her(all right i'll stop here...i know everyone's heard all that!)....the question again is the same...how do i know I've found that someone whenever i come across someone i like????...is there a way to gauge the "loveability" factor of someone???

life is full of experiences...some that break you..make you loose faith in life...and some which are so good that they feel surreal...but the point is this...all of them..the good as well as the bad have made us what we are today...a little confused perhaps..but liked and loved by someone(maybe ur mother...or father or girlfriend or boyfriend...or friends or siblings..or anyone!)...

Those experiences brought about the changes that have landed us where we are today....

There is no formula to lead ur life(wot?were u expecting one??)....no rules by which to live...and due to the very sad fact that humans were not blessed with the "see-the-future-glasses"...the only option left to us mere mortals is to "experience" life...

Every little experience is worth the pain(or the pleasure) of experiencing it!!!!..right now things may look very bad...u might be falling to pieces crying about the guy or the girl who broke ur heart...or you may be depressed because u see urself doing nothing after college...but believe me...even these experiences are gonna contribute to future happiness...

The key to it all is not loosing hope.....the hope that things won't be this hazy if u walked and waited just a little more...the hope that u'll find someone who'll understand the very core of you(and love you!)...the way you want..who won't ever break your heart...the hope that u are going to find something that u love doing...and ur good at...the hope that things will be the way you want them to be...hope.

So experience everything that comes your way...don't shy away from it...what seems bad now..may turn out to bee for a lot of good later...and what may seem very good now may cause u a lot of consternation in future...(of course..there are things which are always good...and those which cause bad even 20 years down the line!)...

I've been doing that("experiencing life" as i call it)...for a while now...and i can say is, that if nothing else, I've noticed that i look forward to the day now...i 'm excited by what life might offer me in the next moment..and all in all it's not that bad...lol!

Just keep hoping...and always hope for the better...live ur life as if the very next moment will bring u the happiness that u dream of...and someday very soon...u will find the things that really matter..things that bring you happiness....things that make you want to live and die for!!!!

so....that's my take on life...i don't expect you to agree with me...and if u found the above a load of crap even that's ok!!!!..but thanks for having read it through!!!!i "hope" u liked it!

(p.s a special thanks to dear "alladin" for suggesting this!)